M0012.003 - Depersonalization
Depersonalization
- Removing personal valuation from the reactions and responses of others.
- Depersonalization helps to create emotional distance between your self-worth and the opinions, behaviors, or criticisms of others, allowing for more objective reflection.
- This strategy reduces the emotional impact of external feedback, enabling you to focus on constructive elements rather than internalizing negative reactions or taking things personally.
Examples
- Objective Reflection: When receiving critical feedback, viewing the comments as an opportunity for growth rather than as a reflection of your self-worth or capabilities.
- Emotional Detachment: In emotionally charged situations, practicing detachment to prevent others' words or actions from triggering a personal emotional response.
- Focus on Behavior, Not Identity: Reframing negative feedback or reactions as commentary on specific actions or behaviors, rather than on who you are as a person.
Discussion
- Depersonalization is closely tied to reality testing, as it helps challenge the assumptions we make about others' reactions by viewing them through a more objective lens.
- It also connects with self-compassion, supporting the practice of being kind to yourself and not letting negative feedback define your worth.
- Using breathing exercises can help in emotionally charged moments to ground yourself and maintain the emotional detachment needed for depersonalization.
Sub- and Co-Mitigations
| Mitigation | Description |
|---|---|
| M0003.002 - Reality Testing | Techniques to evaluate the accuracy of thoughts and perceptions. |
| M0008.002 - Breathing Exercises | Focusing on the breath to calm the mind, reduce stress, and enhance mindfulness. |
| M0012.002 - Self-Compassion | Showing yourself the same compassion you would show others. |
| M0012.004 - Effort-Based Success | Focusing on the effort and commitment invested in a task as the bar for success, rather than the final outcome. |
Expressions
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